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The Power of “Tell Me More” in a Relationship

If there’s one phrase that can quietly transform your relationship, it’s this: “Tell me more.”

Happy couples don’t just love each other—they stay interested in each other. They stay curious about what lights their partner up, what challenges them, and how they see the world. And it doesn’t stop after the honeymoon phase or after kids or careers take over. In fact, in the healthiest marriages, the curiosity deepens over time.

“Tell me more” is the phrase of someone who is present, engaged, and responsive. It sends a message louder than any chore completed or gift given: You matter. I want to know you. That moment—when you choose to ask for more instead of offering a quick fix or changing the subject—tells your partner that they are a priority. More important than the dishes. More important than your phone. More important than finishing your own thought.

It’s a small habit with big impact. Because when two people feel seen, heard, and valued, they don’t just stay together—they grow together. And that’s the kind of love that lasts.

Say These 3 Words to Your Significant Other More Often  was originally published on b1057.com